These days, many of us are feeling aggrieved, even if we are blessed to have stayed healthy, retained our jobs, and kept our loved ones safe from harm.

Throughout life, each of us has been hurt or wronged somewhere along the way. Pain and disappointment are inevitable parts of the journey we call life.

With that said, we have a choice. We can either hold on to hurt and resentment or we can let go and move forward.

By choosing not to forgive past hurts and offenses, we end up consumed with anger and find it difficult to trust others. Anger and resentment sap our energy and keep us living in the past, rather than looking toward the future.

In contrast, choosing to let go can be incredibly freeing. Forgiving someone who wronged you is a powerful character-building exercise. Forgiveness isn’t easy. In fact, it can be incredibly difficult. The strength, humility, and personal growth it requires will serve you as you face new, challenging obstacles in the future.

The most successful entrepreneurs choose to forgive. Their ability to forgive is often what opens doors and opportunities that would have been closed to them otherwise.

Learn to forgive these 4 types of people to open your own gateways to success:

Forgive Your Parents.

“Children begin by loving their parents; after a time they judge them; rarely, if ever, do they forgive them.” – Oscar Wilde

Like us, our parents are imperfect beings who sometimes make poor, hurtful choices. For your own emotional wellbeing, it’s important to forgive your parents for all the mistakes they have made, both in your childhood and adulthood. This is true whether they are living or have passed on.

If they did nothing else for you, your parents gave you the precious gift of life. If you value this gift, forgive them for their wrongdoings. Forgiving your parents is one of the most liberating choices you’ll ever make. The very act requires maturity, acceptance, and great character. If your parents are living, articulating your forgiveness can open a door for mutual respect and even friendship. At a minimum, it can help diminish feelings of insecurity and anger that may have been lingering inside you for years or even decades.

Forgive the People You Love.

“You can’t forgive without loving. And I don’t mean sentimentality. I mean having enough courage to stand up and say, ‘I forgive. I’m finished with it.’” – Maya Angelou

The second group of people you should challenge yourself to forgive is your spouse, friends, other family members, and past relationship partners. These relationships can be intense. Because they require trust, loyalty, open communication, and vulnerability, hurts can cut deeply and leave lasting scars. Pain caused by loved ones can leave anger, resentment, and insecurity to fester for years. This not only holds you back but is toxic to your physical and mental health.

Oftentimes, two parties hold some responsibility when relationships hit bumps or take a turn for the worse. Dig deep and ask yourself, “Do I bear any culpability?” Take ownership of any mistakes you made. Have the personal integrity and strength to articulate your forgiveness and express your love (or in the case of past relationships, wish them well). This is the only way to counteract painful memories, open your heart, and move forward with peace and a positive outlook. This is especially important if the person who wronged you is an active part of your life, but it’s equally liberating to forgive people from your past.

Forgive People in Your Professional Life.

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” – Mahatma Gandhi

Too many of my Celeste Giordano Coaching clients come to me to pick up the pieces after being wronged by business partners, employees, competitors, service providers, and even clients. Sometimes the wrongdoing is the result of an honest mistake – one that set you back or lost you money – but a mistake that caused you or your business harm nonetheless. Other times, you may have been intentionally wronged by someone you trusted. Maybe they didn’t honor a commitment, abandoned ship when you needed them, or spread negative comments about you to people you respect or hope to do business with.

Whatever the case may be, these hurts are real and can distract you from pursuing your goals. Don’t let holding onto resentment hold you back from building the business you’re capable of building. Open your heart, offer forgiveness and do your best to associate yourself with people of integrity in the future.

Forgive Yourself.

“Forgiveness says you are given another chance to make a new beginning.” – Desmond Tutu

Sometimes, the most important person you need to forgive is yourself. Forgive yourself for the thoughtless, silly things you’ve said or done, but also the intentional, hurtful things. Do you regret the damage or pain you caused? Did you take responsibility, apologize, and try to right the wrong? Do you intend to avoid making the same mistakes in the future? If the answer to these questions is yes, it’s time to forgive yourself and move forward with a clean slate.

You are a different person today than you were when you made those mistakes. For that reason, you don’t deserve – and can’t afford – to carry these mistakes around with you forever. Spend your time and energy looking to the future, not the past. Forgiving yourself will set you free to explore new opportunities with a clear head and open heart.

At Celeste Giordano Coaching, I’ve helped many entrepreneurs work through mindset obstacles that hold them back from building lasting Legacy Businesses. When clients liberate themselves from anger and resentment, their minds become open to the opportunities at their fingertips. Together, we create a plan utilizing tried and true sales and business strategies that will see them through difficult times.

Contact me today if that sounds like exactly what you need.

Is there someone in your personal or professional life you haven’t forgiven? Choosing forgiveness will be one of the most difficult but rewarding decisions you ever make.

The choice is yours.

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Celeste Giordano’s mission is to help business owners develop the skills, knowledge and attitude necessary to “DoublePlus^TM” their income and become effective and inspirational leaders in their fields. Whether it’s taking your successful business to the next level or starting a new venture, she will teach you the exact skills and strategies you need to enroll more quality prospects, build a rock-solid team, and break through obstacles to achieve real profit and lasting success. Celeste is a professional business growth specialist, a master sales strategist, and dynamic speaker with 40 years experience in direct sales and managing high-performing teams.

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